我們的起源 | Our Origin

我們從 Exchange Life 開始。 We began with Exchange Life.

十年前，我們以「有機心田」的名字在華語世界扎根。 Ten years ago, we planted roots in the Chinese-speaking world as "Organic Hearts."

現在，我們的英文名稱是 Me2Us2We——從我，到我們。 Now, our English name is Me2Us2We—from me, to us.

「我已經與基督同釘十字架，現在活著的不再是我，乃是基督在我裡面活著；並且我如今在肉身活著，是因信神的兒子而活；他是愛我，為我捨己。」加拉太書 2:20

"I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me." Galatians 2:20

我們是誰 | Who We Are

我們是 Exchange Life 生命門訓群體的延伸。 We are an extension of the Exchange Life discipleship community.

不是課程。不是活動。不是宗教儀式。 Not a program. Not an event. Not religious ritual.

是關係。是生命。是同行。 It's relationship. It's life. It's walking together.

過去十年，我們專門處理一種傷：依戀關係的重創。 For the past decade, we specialized in one kind of wound: attachment trauma.

依戀關係的創傷，影響到個人與自己的連結、與他人的連結，更別提與神的連結了。 Attachment trauma affects a person's connection with themselves, with others, and even more so with God.

如果不直面這個問題，只停留在知識層面，知識反而成為困境。 If we don't face this issue and only stay at the knowledge level, knowledge itself becomes a trap.

那些被「重要他人」傷害的人。 Those wounded by their "significant others."

那些在宗教系統裡被濫用權柄的人。 Those abused by power in religious systems.

那些當同工卻不敢說真話的人。 Those serving as co-workers but afraid to speak truth.

「我是葡萄樹，你們是枝子。常在我裡面的，我也常在他裡面，這人就多結果子；因為離了我，你們就不能做什麼。」約翰福音 15:5

"I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing." John 15:5

People and culture

重新定義「重要他人」| Redefining "Significant Others"

這是情緒年齡的兒童期最關鍵的功課。 This is the most critical lesson of emotional childhood.

不是以「我」為中心。 Not centered on "me."

而是以「我與他人」為中心。 But centered on "me and others."

問題來了—— Here's the problem—

我們生命中的「重要他人」，常常是最不安全的人。 Our "significant others" are often the most unsafe people.

可能是掠奪者。可能是施暴者。 Could be predators. Could be abusers.

可能是打著「愛」的名義控制你的人。 Could be those controlling you in the name of "love."

所以我們需要重新學習： So we need to relearn:

什麼是真正安全的「他人」？ What is a truly safe "other"?

如何在關係中成為安全的人？ How to become a safe person in relationships?

如何在合一中，而不是在依賴中？ How to be in unity, not dependency?

空屋的陷阱 | The Empty House Trap

這裡有個危險，你必須知道。 There's a danger you need to know.

如果你只是清空傷痛、清空負面情緒—— If you only empty out the pain, the negative emotions—

但沒有用新的、健康的、屬神的真理來填滿—— But don't fill it with new, healthy, God-centered truth—

你的結局，會比開始更糟。 Your ending will be worse than your beginning.

這就是耶穌說的「空屋陷阱」。 This is what Jesus called the "empty house trap."

污鬼離開，房子打掃乾淨了。 The demon leaves, the house is swept clean.

但如果房子是空的？ But if the house stays empty?

牠會帶七個更惡的鬼回來。 It returns with seven worse demons.

所以我們不只幫你清空。 So we don't just help you empty.

我們陪你重建。 We walk with you to rebuild.

重建真正的依戀關係——與天父，與安全的群體。 Rebuild true attachment—with the Father, with safe community.

「污鬼離了人身，就在無水之地過來過去，尋求安歇之處，卻尋不著。於是說：『我要回到我所出來的屋裡去。』到了，就看見裡面空閒，打掃乾淨，修飾好了，便去另帶了七個比自己更惡的鬼來，都進去住在那裡。那人末後的景況比先前更不好了。」馬太福音 12:43-45

"When an impure spirit comes out of a person, it goes through arid places seeking rest and does not find it. Then it says, 'I will return to the house I left.' When it arrives, it finds the house unoccupied, swept clean and put in order. Then it goes and takes with seven other spirits more wicked than itself, and they go in and live there. And the final condition of that person is worse than the first." Matthew 12:43-45