【感恩与回顾】Gratitude and Summary

【感恩与回顾】Gratitude and Summary

1. 道谢:

非常感恩，2020年经Eliza介绍能够认识Beth and Bruce , 他们是在美国大教会服侍的一对老牧师和师母，他们非常爱我们，对我们有负担，愿意帮助我们夫妻，每月辅导一次，从如何更好的和神建立关系，如何建立更好的婚姻关系，每次都是Bruce单独辅导我，Beth单独辅导Gloria，然后，他们又一起辅导我们，之后还有家庭作业与实践。

在他们的长期辅导和陪伴下，我们的属灵生命和夫妻关系越来越好，现在我们也开始了辅导和培训国内众多婚姻家庭的侍工。

1. Gratitude:

I am deeply grateful. In 2020, through Eliza's introduction, I had the privilege of meeting pastor Bruce , a devoted elderly pastor and his wife Beth , serving in a large church in the United States. They have shown us immense love and taken a special interest in us, willingly offering their guidance to help us as a couple. Every month, they provided counseling sessions—Bruce would mentor me individually, while Beth would counsel Gloria separately. Afterward, they would come together to guide us as a couple, followed by homework assignments and practical applications.

Under their long-term mentorship and companionship, both our spiritual lives and marital relationship have grown stronger and healthier. Now, inspired by their example, we have also begun counseling and training numerous married couples and families in our home country as part of our ministry.

2. 道歉

对于Bruce的突然摔倒和离世，我非常的伤痛，我后悔没有去美国去看望过他，因为疫情的原因，也没有能去参加他的葬礼，感到非常的亏欠。

2. Apology

We are deeply saddened by Bruce's sudden fall and passing. I regret not having gone to the United States to visit him. Due to the pandemic, I was also unable to attend his funeral, and I feel a great sense of guilt because of that.

3. 道爱

我们非常的爱Beth 和 Bruce，他们就像是我们的父母，把从上帝而来的完美的父母的爱传递给我们，由于我们从小在原生家庭的伤害都非常大，Gloria从妈妈来的伤害，我从爸爸来的伤害，在内心中都留下了很多苦毒的根，深刻的影响着我们的婚姻生活，然而Beth和Bruce的辅导和爱，帮助我们学习饶恕和医治的功课，让我们体验到了来自上帝的爱，我们现在之所以能爱，是因为先体会到了神的爱，我们饶恕是因为神先饶恕了我们。所以我们非常爱Beth和Bruce，是因为我们先从他们身上得到了爱，得到了基督通过他们的生命传递给我们的爱。以至于今天我们也能够将这份美好的爱继续传递下去，祝福更多的中国家庭。

最后我想说:

Beth

我们永远爱你！

祝愿您身体健康，与主同在！

张东晖

2025/10/22

3. Love:

We love Beth and Bruce very much. They are like our parents, passing on the perfect parental love from God to us. Because we both suffered greatly from our original families—Gloria from her mother’s hurt, and I from my father’s—we each carry deep roots of bitterness in our hearts that have profoundly affected our married life. However, the counseling and love from Beth and Bruce have helped us learn the lessons of forgiveness and healing, allowing us to experience God’s love. The reason we can love now is because we first experienced God’s love. We forgive because God first forgave us. That is why we love Beth and Bruce so much—because we first received love from them, the love of Christ conveyed through their lives. As a result, today we are able to continue passing on this beautiful love and bless more Chinese families.

Finally, I want to say:

Beth,

I will love you forever!

Wishing you good health and to be with the Lord!

张东晖 Edward

2025/10/22