情緒成熟的6個階段：我們的成長地圖

The 6 Stages of Emotional Maturity: Our Growth Map

• 我們使用這6個階段作為連結點，溫柔引導年輕世代進來，幫助你從孤立、成癮或假關係中走出，重新建立與自己、神和他人真正的連結。
  We use these 6 stages as a "feeder" to gently draw in the young generation, helping you move out of isolation, addiction, or fake relationships, and rebuild real connections with self, God, and others.

• 我們的使命是帶來「新土壤」，讓年輕世代在這片土壤中扎根，取代成癮與孤立，活出真正的關係與連結。
  Our mission is to bring "new soil," where the young generation can root deeply, replacing addiction and isolation with real relationships and connections.

1. 在這裡，你會找到一群45歲以下（優先35歲以下）、願意承擔責任、勇於突破情感成熟初期階段、願意挑戰自我、做出不尋常選擇、並渴望與志同道合者一同鍛鍊心力的年輕夥伴。
   Here, you will find a community of young people under 45 (preferably under 35) who take responsibility, are willing to move beyond the early stage of emotional maturity, are ready to challenge themselves, do what is not ordinary, and desire to build inner strength together with like-minded peers.

   我們的工作是尋找實際情況，而不是猜測或僅僅傾聽。
   Our job is to find out the reality instead of guessing or just listening.

2. 我們相信，真正的成長來自於面對實際情況、主動調查問題根源，並在「跑步機」上鍛鍊心志，不僅為個人發展，更為創造積極的社會影響。
   We believe that true growth comes

   from facing real situations, actively investigating root causes, and training our hearts and minds "on the treadmill," not only for personal development but also to create positive social impact.

3. 這裡不是依賴某一個人來提供安全空間，而是我們每一位成員共同承擔、彼此守望、一起打造這個安全而有力量的家。
   It is not my job alone to provide a safe space, but our shared responsibility to create, guard, and build this strong and secure home together.

4. 我們邀請你加入這個勇於改變、樂於成長、專注於發現實際情況的群體，與我們一起突破自我、攜手前行！
   We invite you to join this community of change-makers, growth-seekers, and reality-finders, to break through together and move forward hand in hand!

   更正後的實際應用 Corrected Practical Application:

5. 在日常互動中In Daily Interactions

   現在說：
   We now say:

   • 讓我們一起找出實際發生了什麼
     Let's find out together what is really happening

   • 我們需要調查這個情況的實際原因
     We need to investigate the actual causes of this situation

   • 讓我們深入了解實際情況，然後制定行動計劃
     Let's dig into the reality and then create an action plan

6. 在問題解決中In Problem Solving

   我們專注於：We focus on:

   • 收集事實和證據
     Collecting facts and evidence

   • 分析實際模式和趨勢
     Analyzing actual patterns and trends

   • 識別根本原因而非症狀
     Identifying root causes rather than symptoms

   • 制定基於實際情況的解決方案
     Developing reality-based solutions

7. 承諾更新Updated Commitment,從現在開始，我將：From now on, I will:

   永遠優先考慮尋找實際情況而不是提供同理心
   Always prioritize finding out reality over providing empathy

   積極調查而不是被動傾聽
   Actively investigate rather than passively listen

   基於事實行動而不是基於猜測
   Act based on facts rather than assumptions

我無法改變過去的傷害，但我選擇不再傳遞它。成熟，是我給自己和他人的自由。
I can’t change the harm of the past, but I choose not to pass it on. Maturity is the freedom I give to myself and others.

為什麼加入？
- 你想幫助年輕人、弱勢群體或宗教社群成長，卻在領導力或情緒引導上感到挑戰？
- 你渴望帶領青少年找到健康的情緒表達與人際界限，卻不知如何起步？
- 面對自己孩子的情緒，自己也很崩潰，覺得無力？

體驗亮點
- 時間：9/1/25-10/20/25，每週一 13:00-15:30（8週）
- 地點：高雄左營《生態園區捷運站》附近（面談後提供地址）
- 費用：5,600元（8週體驗）
- 結業： 與受益人共餐，見證情緒成熟的量化改變

📖 馬太福音 6:21

因為你的財寶在哪裡，你的心也在那裡。
For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.

在這裡，成熟不等於單打獨鬥或誰走得最快，
Here, maturity isn’t about running alone or being the fastest,

而是在同一套節奏裡練習合作、互相提醒、彼此拉一把。
It’s about learning to move in sync—helping, nudging, and lifting each other up.

我們用四人五腳的步伐，彼此倚靠、互相協調，也允許犯錯和笑聲陪伴成長。
We move forward like a four-legged race: leaning on each other, making adjustments, laughing at the missteps, and growing as we go.

真正的成熟，不是沒有人跌倒，而是沒有人被拋下、每個人都願意等待彼此。
True maturity is not that no one falls, but that no one is left behind—and everyone’s willing to pause for the team.

這是我們的團體作風，更是神家裡一起變成熟、彼此成全的氣氛。
That’s our group DNA—the atmosphere of a God-family that matures by growing together, not apart.

四人五腳，是我們一起走向成熟的決心——沒有你，再厲害都不夠完整

The four-legged race is our commitment to mature together—without you, our journey isn’t complete.